KUALA
LUMPUR: The Women's Aid Organisation (WAO) came out strongly against
the views on husbands paying for sex expressed in yesterday's front
page report in the New Sunday Times.
"WAO wishes to categorically
state that we are completely opposed to the view that career women are
to be blamed when their husbands turn to sex workers," said executive
director Ivy Josiah.
Josiah explained that it was the
organisation's understanding that WAO vice-president Vicky Alahakone
had spoken in her personal capacity as a family law practitioner, and
that she was merely presenting the views given by some male clients to
justify why they went to sex workers.
The report said there is
still a high demand for prostitutes in Malaysia, and that one of the
reasons for this is apparently busy, career-chasing wives.
"These views in no way represent the views of WAO," Josiah stressed.
"WAO
further adds that some married men, irrespective of class, ethnicity
and age, and with or without working spouses, choose to pay for sex for
a variety of reasons, including the belief that they have a right to
have more than one sex partner."
She said it was regrettable
that the prevalent attitude of viewing women as sex objects and not
according them full respect as equal partners was further reinforced in
a society of unequal gender relations.